How to gain more male youth leaders

How to gain more male youth leaders

On average, only 37% of teachers are men in secondary schools; and in primary schools that figure is even lower at 15%.

That makes only 25% of all classroom teachers men. Men are not just less likely to become teachers – but also more likely to leave the job than women. With girls outperforming boys, particularly those from disadvantaged backgrounds, some say the gender imbalance of teachers matters.

When we look within the Church, we see the same type of stats throughout our children’s work, on average, boys lose interest with Church and faith around the age of 12, compared to girls at 15, again pointing maybe an imbalance due to leaders within our children’s and youth work. 

So how do we encourage more male-models to join our groups and be envisioned to support boys in their faith journeys? Below are four general approaches that could to help you approach possible new male leaders.

 

Be intensional when selling the vision

Be honest about why you want them to join team and what the aim is. In this case it’s to specifically grow the lads you connect with to grow the male youth community. If men know there is a cause and reason you want them on team (rather than just a general helper), you’ll find that the challenge alone helps to provide a goal that is measurable by their efforts.

 

Have specific jobs that bring purpose

Generally, guys like to have something to do rather than spending time making conversation. In most cases conversation between men takes place most when doing something. So sometimes it’s important to have specific jobs to do. If you provide specific jobs to guys, it allows men to take something on and make it their own, while also getting alongside boys in conversation and encouraging them.

 

Provide responsibility to older male youth

A great asset we forget about is growing our younger male leaders within our older youth. When older boys are given responsibility its actually a chance for them to step up and be seen as role-models throughout the younger lads.

 

Allow pioneers to to try new things

Allow space for the guys on your team to be pioneering in improving that ways in which things are done. Guys generally like to fix and improve processes to make theirs and others lives easier.

10 Bible verses for encouraging Fathers

10 Bible verses for encouraging Fathers

From Abraham and Jacob to David and Jospeh, fathers have come in many different forms and it is clear their relationship with God determines how well they set their sons on the right path with God.

Take some time as a father to read through 10 encouraging verses from the Bible that challenge us to live out fatherhood in an honouring towards God and our family.

 

Ephesians 6:4

“Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”

 

Hebrews 12:7 

“Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father?”

 

Proverbs 23:24 

“The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him.

 

Joshua 24:15 

“But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” 

 

Psalm 103:13 

“As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him.”

 

Matthew 6:8 

“Your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”

 

Proverbs 17:6

“Grandchildren are the crown of old men, and the glory of sons is their fathers.”

 

Colossians 3:21

Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”

 

Deuteronomy 1:31 

“There you saw how the Lord your God carried you, as a father carries his son, all the way you went until you reached this place.”

 

Proverbs 22:6 

“Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.”